Harbin is like the Cleveland of China. It’s a big enough city that it’s worth mentioning, but no one really wants live here. It’s really folksy and outdated and but not really outdated and folksy enough that it’s majestic like old China and the ancient cities. It’s more like outdated like everything, buildings, cars, machines are anywhere from the 1960’s to 1980’s. They still use squat toilets here, for godsake. It’s a terrible combination of the worst of the old world China and worst of modern China.
watching gravity for the first time when i was high was one of the most intense experiences of my life i almost cried
Treat her like a drug, not a princess. Be addicted to her.
I don’t want to be treated like a drug OR a princess, I want to be treated like a human being.
I’ve dated guys who treated me like a drug and one of them actually turned into a stalker and harassed me and made my life really miserable.
I’ve dated guys who treated me like a princess and put me on a pedestal and then every time I made a mistake, they’d refuse to acknowledge it and insist that I was perfect and it got really annoying really fast. You can’t have a healthy relationship when one person idolizes the other.
I am not a princess, I am not a drug, I am a woman with a personality and flaws and interests and a life independent of my relationships.